啊!劉小痞又在ㄇㄇ了…

裡拜五的早上.姊夫打給我.

說yoyo走了.

我想了想.

說了聲:噢.

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如人飲水,冷暖只自知.

比較忙,但這是個”比較級”的說法.

聽過美國友人有次回答”how are you doing?”的時候會這樣回答: “better than most but not as good as some.”

我喜歡這答案.

這讓人感恩的同時還抱著顆謙卑的心,相信還可以更好.

有個來應徵的問我如何解壓.

我想了一下.

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Motorcycle accident took his life away last night.  That was shocking news.  You see news like this almost daily, but you wouldn’t expect it to be someone you knew.

I tried to rebulid the scene in my imagination.  What would he be thinking of during that last minute, or the time right before he flew from the bike and hit the concrete wall.  It might just be a few seconds, but during those moments, a lot would be going on in our mind—flashbacks.

Did he regret not doing a certain things? did his parents warn him about biking? When his parents fly from HK to the US will they be given the bike from the police? are they gonna kick the damn bike as if it was the bike’s fault?…

I don’t know.  But it got me thinking.

“do what you feel in your heart to be right – for you’ll be criticized anyway.  You’ll be damned if you do, and damned if you don’t.” – eleanor roosevelt